> When it comes to making a long distance relationship work there are
> several things that you should do and that you should not do. There
> are a lot of things that you need to do to make it work, but there
> some things that just make it hard. It’s hard to have a long distance
> relationship because you never know what they do in their spare time.
> They can’t always be on the phone with you and they can’t always be
> using their spare time focusing on you.
> WANT TO KNOW MORE
> It's hard. We kept in contact (Northern CA to Chicago IL) by phone and email. His job moved him to Chicago. My job and kids kept me here. When it got too difficult, he approached his employer, and asked to "remote" (he is a software engineer- programmer). Surprisingly, his company allowed it! He moved back here a year and a half ago, and now just logs on every morning to "go to work" at this Chicago office, from our home office in California. Not everyone's solotion, I know, but a happy ending for us.
